You know when you are invited to a Barbecue or family dinner or any other casual yet 'invitation only' get together, and you usually find yourself dropping by the store last minute to grab a box of chocolates or bottle of wine. Turning up empty handed is not an option, yet most of the time a bunch of flowers or the previously mentioned chocolates are quite standard and expected. "Be creative and stand out from the crowd!" You have been told not to bring a thing, yet you know that no matter how classic or creative your gesture is it will be looked at, thanked and then consumed without ever…