I was having a shocking day a number of weeks ago. It seemed that nothing could possibly go right. I was sick, snowed under with work and felt generally run down. To my surprise, my partner appeared at my door with chocolates and a beautiful bouquet. I was touched and elated. To my dismay, I’ve always felt saddened that there are no obvious, spontaneous gifts to give the man in your life. Of course there are always things that he likes and wants, but without spending hundreds on these ideas, I have always felt I am not left with many options. So, if you’re anything like me, want to be spontaneous…